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Ramblings of a submissive – You better be ready!

Technically my day with Sir started in the wee hours of the morning somewhere around 1:00am and it was quite the full day so this post will be a two parter. It was my Sir day and I was very much looking forward to it. I laid in bed under my canopy on a phone… Continue reading Ramblings of a submissive – You better be ready!

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Ramblings of a submissive – The Day I used my safe word and the feelings that followed

I can remember the day I used my safe word like it was yesterday. But more importantly I can remember the range of emotions I experienced after using it for the days that followed. The definition of a safe word is so simple because it’s exactly that “ a safe word”. A word that’s said… Continue reading Ramblings of a submissive – The Day I used my safe word and the feelings that followed

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Ramblings of a submissive – Which one is it?

Which one is it? He asked.... that’s the question that swirled through my mind as I laid in the bed struggling to nap on a Saturday afternoon. I tend to do a lot of my thinking before sleep which is why I have such a hard time getting some shut eye. I just can’t shut… Continue reading Ramblings of a submissive – Which one is it?

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Ramblings of a submissive – The Need for submission can be Overwhelming!

Sadie what do you need ?  He asked as I looked at him very timidly and let a verbal hem and haw out because I just didn’t want to come out with it. It was pretty late at night on the cusp of midnight and I found myself sitting on the couch next to Wicked… Continue reading Ramblings of a submissive – The Need for submission can be Overwhelming!

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Ramblings of a submissive – My Marks….My Memories

As I take a break from cutting fabric and while I wait on hold for customer service to answer my call...I figured I’d ramble a little. It’s 9:41pm and for the life of me I don’t understand why most companies these days don’t have the option to not literally wait on hold and instead give… Continue reading Ramblings of a submissive – My Marks….My Memories

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Ramblings of a submissive – The Need for Control not Cuddles

It's late in the day on Tuesday and for the first time since I've participated in TMI Tuesdays the prompt isn't up for today. Normally it comes out on Monday evenings so I hope the blogger who writes it is somewhere sipping my thais and is not sick. So I figured as I sit here… Continue reading Ramblings of a submissive – The Need for Control not Cuddles

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Ramblings of a submissive – Spankings are good for the soul! [147 is the number]

There are so many things that I say are good for the soul....orgasms, Pepsi, fatty foods, the bodega, sex and the list goes on and on and on. But I must not forget to add that spankings are good for the soul too. Now spankings come in all sorts of shapes and sizes so I… Continue reading Ramblings of a submissive – Spankings are good for the soul! [147 is the number]

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Sir Knew Just What I Needed – Laying Myself Bare

My level of excitement for this evaluation session was not like it was for my first session. My first session I was excited, nervous and anticipatory. You can read all about my first session HERE (it will open in a separate tab). I had prepared for a week and it was at the forefront of… Continue reading Sir Knew Just What I Needed – Laying Myself Bare

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The Evaluation – Details from My First Formal BDSM Session {Sir Week}

I arrive to the house at 7:45pm...definitely not the time that I wanted to arrive. I was still early but I wanted to arrive around 7:30 because I had my bags that I needed to set to the side because I was staying over for the weekend. Plus I also wanted enough time to sit… Continue reading The Evaluation – Details from My First Formal BDSM Session {Sir Week}

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What I Learned From My First Formal BDSM Session. Submissive Ramblings – {Sir Week}

There’s still so much about my own submissive nature that I want to learn and have a deeper understanding about. I’d love to understand it from the basis of my desires, the why. Why do I get pleasure from pleasing someone else? Why do I want to be lead and not lead? Why do I… Continue reading What I Learned From My First Formal BDSM Session. Submissive Ramblings – {Sir Week}