1. If you were a sex worker what kind of sex work would you NOT do? I would not do street walking if I was a sex worker. I think I’d prefer to live in a brothel of sorts or have my own independent business. Maybe even a glory hole situation…who knows?! Let’s really define sex worker – I suppose I already am a sex worker. You’ve seen me on this blog naked and video of me getting a spanking amongst my other presence online. I just sold my first sexy video today so I guess…yeah I am a sex worker 🙂 Let’s just say there’s a few sex workers in this group depending on your definition of the term…shall we count porn ? lol!
Wicked (My Partner) – No street walking.
Double Mint (My Partner) – Nothing with men!
Jelly Bean (Metamour) – Anything where I am completely and totally at the mercy of the guy. And nothing with extreme pain.
Kit Kat (Metamour) – I wouldn’t want to have any sex for money.
Twix (Family Friend) – Nothing with feet!
2. You are a sex worker and you must have a specialty. Which ONE of the following would be your specialty and why? I think I might have to go with professional domination because although I’m a sub when it comes to men there are a few things on my sexual bucket-list that involve dominating a man. But when it comes to women and sex work I have no desire to do anything dominating to another woman there’s nothing about that in my mind that turns me on. Speaking of my sexual bucket list I have read so many good blog posts on people sharing and crossing things off there sexual bucket-list. I have decided that I will share my experience when I cross things of the bucket list but I won’t share it all at once in full just yet. I’m not interested in camming at all nor am I interested in live sex shows. I’d have to do professional domination on my own schedule every once in a blue moon because I can’t see myself as a full time switch I’m much further on the spectrum of submissiveness then I am in domination.
a. Live sex shows
b. Professional domination
Wicked (My Partner) – Camming because that is where the money is
Double Mint (My Partner) – Live Sex Shows because people can get up close and personal
Jelly Bean (Metamour) – Professional Domination because its the safest, has the most dignity and gives an opportunity for me to experience pleasure as well as the man.
Kit Kat (Metamour) – Live Sex Shows because I can do it with someone that I enjoy having sex with
Twix (Family Friend) – Live Sex shows because that’s what i’d be strongest at.
3. What is your secret fetish? Ohh I can’t share that or else it won’t be secret anymore. I had a hard enough time telling Wicked so I most certainly will not be telling all of the internet lol!
Wicked (My Partner) – I don’t have any, I live them out
Double Mint (My Partner) – Watersports
Jelly Bean (Metamour) – Seducing Men
Kit Kat (Metamour) – I don’t have any
Twix (Family Friend) – Big noses
4. Anal sex can be pretty alluring? Tell the truth, which do you prefer anal or vaginal sex? Good question. I’ll have to link my most recent anal sex experience post here : Anal Sex – My First Time and then some . I really need to update you all on that too. But to answer the question it really depends on the feeling that I’m wanting that day. I’ve had some really good anal experiences and also some terrible ones. I’ve found that a lot of my enjoyment from anal sex comes from 1. Having that used for his pleasure feeling that really turns me on and 2. The feeling of always being on the brink of orgasm when he does it with the intent to make me feel good. On any regular day I prefer vaginal sex.
Wicked (My Partner) – N/A
Double Mint (My Partner) – N/A
Jelly Bean (Metamour) – Vaginal
Kit Kat (Metamour) – Vaginal
Twix (Family Friend) – Vaginal
5. What is the most embarrassing thing you have said during sex? Goodness I think everything I say during sex is embarrassing lol. I’m not one hundred percent comfortable with my dirty talk. I think all sorts of naughty things in my mind but when trying to say it out loud I just freeze up and think its going to sound stupid. Or I’m too timid and think that what’s on my mind is just too dirty to say. But I’m getting better at it.
Wicked (My Partner) – “No, guess I’m leaving”. The story is he went on a tinder date and took the bus back to her place. They were both hot and sweaty so he asked “Wanna take a minute and freshen up? She said – No I’m good . He asked her again because he wasn’t about to go down on no sweaty parts. She said no again and he said ok no, guess I’m leaving (this story made me laugh lol!!! – Sadie)
Double Mint (My Partner) – Is that all you do is lay there?
Jelly Bean (Metamour) – I was with a guy who made unusual noises when he came. When I heard it for the first time we had sex…I stared at him while he as cumming and said “Really?” and laughed. The laughing squeezed him, which made him cum harder and make even more noises. And that of course made me laugh harder
Kit Kat (Metamour) – Nothing that I can think of
Twix (Family Friend) – What blood?
Bonus: Is your g-spot in your ass? If no, where is it? Would it be crazy if I said I need to ask someone about that and get back to you lol I know that during anal when it gets to the point where every thrust feels like I’m on the verge of an orgasm it’s because he says he’s touching my g spot from my ass…I have to be honest and say I’m not exactly sure what that means. I’ll tell him inquiring minds would like to know so check back tomorrow for that answer 🙂
Last Blog Post – Ramblings of a submissive – My Marks….My Memories I did not get around to doing last weeks TMI Tuesday but being the resident poly person I really wanted to give my thoughts. I will be posting that later this week 🙂
Netflix Pick of the Week : Another Life – This is a new netflix series with ten episodes that I binge watched in 3 days. You’d have to like sci fi to be interested. But I say read the description and try it for yourself .
Song of the week : Wicked put me on to this song over the weekend because he said it made him think of me. I’ve since listened to a lot more from this artist and have really enjoyed him.